'He's Just Not That Into You' Author Wants To Answer Your Love Questions

I met this fabulous guy who seemed really interested in me. Calls every day, txts just to say "I miss you"... However, when the relationship was ready to progress, I was not ready and I think he felt rejected... we still speak, and he still flirts from time to time, but seems so much more distant. Is this even worth pursuing or am I being strung along now?

Greg,

I have read and LOVE your book!

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and living together for about 4 months. We are both in our mid 20's. We rarely fight and if we do its a quick 30 minute spat, he is attentive, loves to cuddle, we have no problems in the bedroom, he works hard, tells me I am beautiful every day, tells me he loves me, talks with me about weddings (including about joking about running away to an island to elope since our familys are crazy), we see eachother all the time, have the same friends, are able to play and joke with eachother always, and he is just perfect according to my idea of a mate.

Is he not that inot me if we have everything wonderful going for us; yet we aren't engaged? He says that he sees us married and me being the mother of his children. He has even told me that if he has the money at that time he wouldn't mind me being a stay at home mother if I wanted to. We have been seriously looking at houses and when ever marriage comes up he says "We can't do both right now and with the market the way it is buying a house is a smart move." If he is willing to sign a 30 year MTG with me (and put in the down payment) wouldn't that mean he is in to me and wouldn't that mean he intends to marry me?

Am I just being neurotic here?

Thanks =)

hello greg, the question i would like to ask you is that i've been living with my boyfriend for 4 years now, this christmas he gave me an ankle bracelet(remember in the 80's?) now, my divorce became final about 3 weeks ago,we do plan about our "goals" but, marriage is never really mentioned...do you think there may be a chance that I could get "the ring"or am I just the cow thats for free??I would love to hear your perspective on this situation..thank you...Robin, or should I say moo..:-]

I met this guy literally days after my ex left me on christmas eve 2008... This new guy was sweet and funny and seemed to like me very much. Everything was going smoothly until the "intimacy" issue came into play. I guess I can say that my fears of getting hurt came into play, and i shunned him. I tried to be an adult about the situation and explain myself. Unfortunetly, he told me that I turned him off. However, he continues to speak to me and flirt with me, he gets jealous if he knows I am going out and says things to see if I will get jealous. I thought that maybe I hurt his feelings and he was being defensive about it, because he seemed to be still interested in me. I really do like him alot and would like to progress. My question is, should I just be honest with him and how I feel? Or can that scare him away again? Or is he no longer interested? I dont know... I wish I could read men's minds... I am so lost right now... Please Help

What does it really take to make a good relationship work? We get along great, never board with eachother...I really want this relationship to work, any ideas??

I have been getting to know this man for the past few months or so... it hasn't always been smooth but he seems pretty interested and attentive thus far. however, last weekend he went out with his friends and had this "sick" time or so I have heard. And now I have not spoken to him in a few days. My friends say that maybe some emergency came up, he has never ever been rude to me prior. Am I being given the brush off? Or should I be patient? I really dont like feeling rejected... =(

Hi Greg!

First, I loved your talk show! Miss it much.... Congrats on all the sucess the book has brought you. My question. Any advise for a 40ish single woman on getting a decent date? Yep, that simple. I have tried online but met many creeps and liars, not so into the bar scene, work is out, most of my freinds are married and dont to have many single freinds, the groups I join seem to be geared toward woman (I oftem meet a nice gay guy to hang out with, LOL). I know there is no magic bullet answer but some of your thoughts would great. Stay cool! Michelle

I seen the movie this past sunday and thought it was very good. I'm no into "chick flicks" but the it was fair for both male and female. The Ben and Jennifer situation was the best to me. Towards the end I think she deserved the ring he gave, meaning she deserved the engagement. The scenario w/ the guy who own ran the bar and the desperate female played out well also. Good movie. I may not read the book, but good stuff.

Went to the movie this past sunday and thought it was very good. I'm no into "chick flicks" but it was fair for both male and female. The Ben and Jennifer situation was the best. Towards the end I think she deserved the ring he gave her. She deserved the engagement. The scenario w/ the guy who ran the bar and the desperate female, played out well also. Good movie. I may not read the book, matter of fact I won't but good stuff.